I'm pretty laid back until I get annoyed or pissed off. If you disagree with me, that's fine as long as you can defend your point of view intelligently, you can't stoop to name calling or immature answers like "grow up". Actually defend it, that's all I ask, I don't have to agree with your point of view, nor you with mine, and as long as you handle it maturely I will give your opinion a fair chance, but you have to show me the same respect, just know we probably will just end up agreeing to disagree.
I use an online forum with about music, and on lots of post one guy always said such and such band is awful/sucks whichever insult he has for them, so I finally got tired of it, so I challenged him with it, since he doesn't seem to like anyone that had been mentioned, I asked who did he like, he answered and was mature, not a jackass about it all.
Then you have those that talk big because of being online and therefore anonymous or relatively so, so they are bigger jerks online and take aggressions out on people in forums and chat rooms, on blogs, because they can hide behind that computer screen.
With me, I won't say anything online to you that I wouldn't say to your face. I am sometime a bit more reserved online because once it's online and in print you can't talk it back.
In life I am kind of quiet until you get to know me, then forget it, you will see me say and do the weirdest, wackiest, most bizarre things, but only if I like you and trust you. I will talk more, reveal more, to you as I get to know you. Some it happens right away, others it takes a lot longer, if ever to fully open up.
The first time I ever met the singer of my favorite band I was so scared, he seemed like such a jerk walking through the club, but I was finally talked into meeting him. I was getting my picture taken with him, he stuck his hand in my face and I slapped his hand down and called him a fucker, he laughed and took several pictures. Hung out for hours, I had briefly talked to him online about a month before meeting him, and due to what I had asked him about he actually remembered me. I have no idea what made me slap a man's hand that I had been afraid to meet 10 minutes before, but I did. When I did that, and he laughed it changed everything between us. We instantly became relaxed with each other. That was one of the greatest nights of my life. He told me that I was the only person to ever respond to him that way, and he loved it. He was scary as an image and having a bad day or rather couple of days and that wasn't helping his mood.
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